Tuesday, July 25, 2017

Peter Davison, fandom, misquotes and nerd rage



       There has been a lot of he said crap going around lately about what Peter Davison said about the new Doctor on Doctor Who. Most of it has been misquoted and twisted. It seems that no one today is allowed to have their own opinion. But I guess I shouldn’t be that surprised. Things like that have been going on for as long as I can remember. It’s just hard to fathom that the argument is going on in the science fiction ( And I’ll even go as far as calling it the nerd community) community. We have been chastised for our difference of opinions for a very long time. Who shot first? Why did George ruin my childhood? Why do you dress up to go to conventions? Trekkie or trekker? You read comics, how old are you again? You watch cartoons? That’s just a handful off the top of my head.

          My point is, our community has always been about acceptance. About individuality. Having your own opinion(s) without the fear of being repressed by your fellow comrades. It’s that comradery that has made our “community” so strong. I personally wouldn’t want to be part of a society or group that everyone has the same opinions. Do you realize how damn boring that would be? My point is that from I read and heard Peter did not come out and say he did not want a female Doctor. Even when he was asked three months ago at WhoFest D/FW about his opinion. You can see my recording here       ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X94ezv7hF5M ).

Friday, June 2, 2017

Collecting Memories



The mind is funny sometimes (well, mine is, at least), especially when it comes to the world of collectibles. Whether it’s autographs, figures, or whatever, the memories your mind ties to certain experiences or items are extraordinary.
One example: when getting autographs, I like to try and make that moment a little more special than your average convention “pay, sign, shake hands, goodbye” experience. I try to bring a unique photo they wouldn’t normally see or have them write an inscription that’s different from what they usually sign. I even try to have an actual conversation with them. You would be amazed at the response you can get.
A few years ago, my daughter and I met actress Rashida Jones in Dallas. She has been in a ton of things, but being a huge fan of View Askew movies, I brought the DVD cover of the movie she did called Now You Know. She was so amazed to see it that she called her friend over and they started talking about it. Her friend even took a photo of us on her phone, and Ms. Jones wholeheartedly thanked me for bringing it.
Another example is when I met Alice Cooper. Alice was going to be at Texas Frightmare Weekend, and I knew exactly what I wanted him to sign. Since I knew C.J. Graham was going to be there as well, I brought a photo of him and Alice together. Alice did the song "He’s Back (The Man Behind the Mask)" for Friday the 13th Part VI, and C.J. played Jason in that movie.
I also wanted a photo from Alice’s performance on The Muppet Show, so I had a 16x20 printed. I got in line and noticed everyone else had the usual stuff: photos of the band, record sleeves, etc. I laid down my photo of him and C.J., and he commented on it. Then, I rolled out The Muppet Show photo. His face just lit up. He started talking about the show and Jim Henson, then he called his manager over to show him. He gave me one of the best inscriptions: “Riley, Welcome to my Muppetmare! Alice Cooper.”
Now, do I have autographs that are less memorable? Sure. But the ones tied to a great experience are a little more special. I can tell the story of how I got them, what happened, and what was said, even years later. It’s usually those little moments that make me a bigger fan of that person than I was before.
Of course, there have been a few experiences that totally negated my fandom—though those are few and far between. Even so, a story is still there.
Sometimes, even a simple souvenir can spark a memory. One of mine is a popcorn bag. What’s so special about a popcorn bag? Well, I got this particular one in May 1997. Those who know me personally know who my favorite actor has always been. In May 1997, The Fifth Element came out co-starring Gary Oldman. My wife and I had been married almost a year, and we went to the movies for my birthday. We shared a small popcorn, and the bag had a picture from the movie on it.
The movie was awesome—the visual effects, the costumes, the story, and most importantly, Gary Oldman. (Can that man have any more range? The guy is just incredible.) About three-quarters of the way through, I looked over and discovered the Mrs. had fallen asleep. She had apparently slept through the majority of the movie unbeknownst to me. I didn't want to disturb her, so I just made sure she was comfortable so she wouldn’t wake up with a crick in her neck.
It didn’t upset me. She knew I really wanted to see the movie and she wanted to be there with me. Even though she was asleep, she was still there. Every time I see that movie or that popcorn bag, that memory pops into my head and makes me love her even more.
I have quite a few collectibles, but those specific ones are the ones I’ll never get rid of because of that connection. They might not be meaningful to others, but they are to me—and that’s what the hobby is about. Do you have any collectibles tied to a favorite memory? I sure hope so, because it’s a great feeling to have.


Tuesday, January 26, 2016

To Pay or Not to Pay: An Autograph Tale (revisited and updated)

             


          I can remember as a child seeing my favorite celebrities on television. Whether it was my favorite actors, voice over, or even sports celebrities. Sitting there imaging what it would be like to meet them, talk to them, or who knows maybe even get their autograph. From what I’ve heard, when I was a kid in the eighties, autographs were easier to obtain. If you saw your favorite celebrity, you just walked up and asked for his or her autograph. They would usually go all “Joe Green” on you and say “sure kid” and give you an autograph.

          For me personally, the main celebs that I would have access to were the Dallas Cowboys or the wrestlers of the WCCW. I would get autographs from my favorite players like Randy White, Danny White, or Roger Staubach or some of my favorite wresters the Von Erich family, the Dingo Warrior, or Chris Adams. Fast forward to current times and the game has completely changed. Instead of automatically getting the “sure kid”, you get the “is this going on eBay” question. Even if you say no, you get inevitable “you’re lying” look. It especially happens if you’re not a kid. But I’ve seen it happen to kids as well. In all fairness, I can see it from the celebrities’ point of view. If people are getting their autograph for free, and then sell it, then they believe they are entitled to some of that proverbial cash.

          Sometimes I think the celebrity fails to realize that if it’s the value of their autograph they are worried about, then the more they sign the less their autograph is worth. It’s all supply and demand in the world of collectibles. For example, take former Texas Rangers pitcher C.J. Wilson. C.J. would sign for just about anyone who would ask. Now don’t get me wrong C.J. wasn’t the only player that did that. In my opinion, the people who would ask for his autograph were his true fans. He was one of the most fan friendly players at the time.

          It wasn’t until 1998 that I had a chance to meet a “Hollywood” actor. In the mid to late nineties one of my favorite television shows was the X-Files. I watched it every week, read the official magazines, etc. I later found out they were making a movie. This was information that made this X-Phile very happy. To top it all off there was going to be a nationwide promotion tour. The tour would consist of actual props from the television show, exclusive trailers, and actors from the show. The way it worked was you paid for admission and just about everything inside was free (even autographs). Though Mulder & Scully weren’t there, three of my favorites were. Even though autographs weren’t guaranteed, I was able to meet two out of the three actors that was there.

          In 2002 I came across Dallas Comic Con. “Con” was short for convention. I did some research beforehand and found out that some legends from the comic book industry were going to be there along with some great science fiction writers. Most importantly to me I also found out that some actors and actresses were also going to be on hand signing autographs for a price. My wife and I attended this show; little did I know this was going to be a regular thing.

          Up until then I had never paid for an autograph from a celebrity but I understood the reasoning. I didn’t fully agree but I understood. Besides 10 to 20 dollars per autograph wasn’t that bad from someone you truly admire. Plus, you may never get to meet that person again. The choice is pretty fairly simple, if you want to pay, pay. If you don’t, then don’t. It’s just about like everything else in the world. The choice is entirely up to the individual and no one else. No one is forcing you to attend and pay for anything. Like it or not, it is a business. Since that first X-Files Expo, I have attended many conventions over the years. I have met a lot of my favorite celebrities at the conventions I have attended. I have also obtained autographs from most of them. For example, at one show in particular I was able to meet one of my favorite actors, Adam Baldwin. Now it’s not often you see Adam Baldwin walking the streets of Dallas. I know this, which is why it was a no brainer for me to gladly pay for his autograph.

          I have so many fond memories from that first convention, unfortunately there are a few regrets as well. My few fond memories was being able to share this memory with my wife, meeting Carrie Fisher for the first time, and meeting the late great Dave Stevens. Three regrets in particular always stay with me as well. Not meeting veteran actor Ben Chapman (who has since passed away), not getting a sketch or an autograph from the late great Dave Stevens (even though I spoke with him several times throughout the day), and not meeting actor Glen Shadix (also who has since passed away). Now I know you can’t tell who’ll pass away unexpectedly, it’s just something you’ll have to deal with if it happens to you.

          I can honestly say though, the positives far outweigh the negatives when it comes to the convention circuit. So, if you do decide to go to a comic book or science fiction convention, have fun. Will there be things that you don’t like? Maybe. Will there be things you like? Definitely. Just go there with an open mind, the readiness to embrace your inner nerd, have a great time. Be sure to do your own research beforehand. Check the conventions website, read their social media pages, talk to the regulars. Most of them probably know the ins and outs of the circuit better than anyone. They can help you if you have any questions. All you have to do is ask.

            There are good conventions and there are some conventions that will just nickel and dime you without delivering the goods. On the other side though, there are some that are as much for the fans as they are for the money. You just have to look for them. Word of mouth is the best type of advertising, so researching a convention beforehand will make the good ones easier to find. I personally don’t go to many conventions anymore. As stated in the beginning, Dallas Comic Con was the convention I visited the most. But that has completely changed. I do not go to their shows anymore for a multitude of reasons. But I know a lot of people that do. And that’s cool. You have that choice.


          Long story short, if you decide to go, remember the most important thing is to HAVE FUN.